Cindy Shoenhair ...


Now an Infinite Time in Heaven
Glorifying God

October 18, 2001

Dear Family and Friends,

Thank you for coming to this celebration of the life of Cynthia Le Shoenhair.  Cindy was a unique and precious life.  Many of you knew Cindy.  Some of you happened to know her very well.  Some of you simply knew of her through another individual.  It is for those of you who knew her casually or not at all that this message is penned.

For the past five years and ten months Cindy faced breast cancer.  In the end, her body succumbed, but no one could ever say her spirit did.  Throughout this painful journey, her faith in God was unwavering.  I was fortunate to know her well.  She had this incredible faith; she had no doubts.  Cindy was fearful of the impact her sickness and potential death would have on her family and friends but she never expressed self doubts or fear towards her own fate.  When the cancer first came back after three and a half years, our first conversation was entirely focused on her concerns for the children and I.  To this day, I am still humbled by her faith and focus.

During the “remission years” Cindy was very clear with me that if the cancer were to come back she knew there was no medical cure. True health and cleansing would rightfully come from our Lord, if it were His will.  Once she was re-diagnosed, she was rock solid.  While she fought the disease with every medical and nutritional effort she believed in, she held fast to her knowledge that the Lord could cure her, if it were His will.  That faith stayed with her as strong at the end of her life as it was in the beginning of her journey.  The Lord gave my wife tremendous strength.

There were few tenants to Cindy’s life.  She kept things simple so that she could accomplish much.  Those tenants could be described in the following five phrases:

Serve Christ
Mother her Children

Wife of Dan
True Friend to all that would have her

Love her students

Cindy believed if one’s priorities were correctly ordered and simply understood as well as faithfully practiced, life was a simple pleasure a holy gift from God.  Even in the end, her life was a simple pleasure.  But for Cindy, the end was just the beginning.

In closing, I was fortunate to have received a copy of an e-mail from my wife to a very new, but very dear friend.  I think it expresses her feelings about the Lord and her interpretation of her short life:  Cindy had written:“ I hope God will use me and this situation as a vessel to honor and glorify His name.”

Please help me make her hopes and prayers come true in this regard.  If you have not accepted Christ into your life and wish to do so today, please come to see either myself, a pastor or one of my three brothers in Christ from my covenant group.  We would like to pray with you and help you start your walk with Christ.  This would have been Cindy’s final wish, but much more importantly should be recognized as God’s will to draw you near to Him.

God is good!  Blessed be the Lord.

Dan




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